DeBenedictis, Philomena "Phyllis" (DeVito) of Melrose February 15. Beloved wife of the late Albert J. Sr. Mother of Albert J. Jr., and wife Susan of Danvers, Arthur and wife Rosemarie of Melrose, Teresa Oakes and husband William of Weston , CT and the late Louis DeBenedictis. Grandmother of Anthony, Julia, Alec, Darina & Stephen DeBenedictis, Natalie and Matthew Oakes. Sister of Mary Aufiero of Cambridge, Alfred M. DeVito of Watertown, Josephine Rutkowski of Arlington, Alexander DeVito Jr., of CT, and the late Edward A. DeVito & Grace DiVito. Relatives and friends are invited to visit in The DeVito-O'Donnell Funeral Home 1145 Mass Avenue ARLINGTON Monday 3:00 to 7:00pm and to a funeral mass on Tuesday at 10:00am in The Church of Incarnation 429 Upham St., Melrose. Interment to follow Mt. Auburn Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Phyllis's memory to The Chelsea Soldiers Home/Quigley Memorial Hospital, Recreation Department., c/o John Davis 91 Crest Ave., Chelsea, MA 02150