Obituaries

Joseph Lemmo
B: 1923-10-29
D: 2018-04-21
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Lemmo, Joseph
Edith Sorrentino
B: 1926-10-11
D: 2018-04-21
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Sorrentino, Edith
Anna Doyle
B: 1925-07-03
D: 2018-04-12
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Doyle, Anna
Michael O'Meara
B: 1954-11-09
D: 2018-04-12
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O'Meara, Michael
Carmela Rice
B: 1916-08-24
D: 2018-04-11
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Rice, Carmela
Leo Manis
B: 1926-01-03
D: 2018-04-11
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Manis, Leo
Peter Whitney
B: 1938-06-23
D: 2018-04-10
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Whitney, Peter
Roberta Casper
B: 1941-05-08
D: 2018-04-07
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Casper, Roberta
Gregory Diliberto
B: 1949-10-14
D: 2018-04-05
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Diliberto, Gregory
Vincent Giliberto
B: 1925-06-06
D: 2018-04-05
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Giliberto, Vincent
Doris Magnuson
B: 1923-03-04
D: 2018-04-02
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Magnuson, Doris
Jacquelynne O'Rourke
D: 2018-04-02
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O'Rourke, Jacquelynne
James Shimansky
B: 1946-03-06
D: 2018-04-02
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Shimansky, James
Robert Cusolito
B: 1956-04-26
D: 2018-04-01
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Cusolito, Robert
Carole Fagan
B: 1936-10-09
D: 2018-04-01
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Fagan, Carole
Andre Raisis
B: 1944-02-07
D: 2018-03-29
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Raisis, Andre
Maria Mignanelli
B: 1935-11-21
D: 2018-03-28
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Mignanelli, Maria
Peter Doherty
B: 1944-11-02
D: 2018-03-26
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Doherty, Peter
Nora Ampolo
B: 1925-03-25
D: 2018-03-25
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Ampolo, Nora
Joan Bernsee
B: 1932-06-07
D: 2018-03-23
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Bernsee, Joan
Lera McLaughlin
B: 1921-12-08
D: 2018-03-21
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McLaughlin, Lera

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Seeking Guidance: Grief Counseling

The 1969 publication of what was to become a landmark book, On Death and Dying, written by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross changed the way we looked at grief. She described five stage of grieving: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance–stages which became the foundation of our understanding of the experience of grief for decades.

But later research has shown that we cope with grief not in linear or cyclical stages, but in a back-and-forth process which moves between the experience of sadness, anger, yearning, or crying; and the experience of feeling joy or contentment. This is almost a “safety valve”, giving the bereaved a period of rest in dealing with their grief.

Grief is, you see, work. And it seems the body intuitively knows that such hard work requires periods of rest.  This natural back-and-forth process helps us to achieve the four essential tasks in grieving:

1. To accept the reality of the loss

2. To work through to the pain of grief

3. To adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing

4. To emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life

But what if you get stuck? Perhaps you can’t accept this new reality; or maybe working through the pain of grief is wearing you down. That’s when a qualified grief counselor can help.

We are pleased to provide bereavement services for the families we serve. In addition, we have many community-based resources we can recommend to you. For more information, please feel free to ask us at the funeral home, or contact us here.

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